Dating while genderqueer
I'm interested in women but do I want to be seen as a masculine woman?
Like I need to acknowledge the male side of things, that's absolutely necessary. - variation of the Sith Code inspired by Sienna Fire I don't think that's such a rare perspective, Master Barista.how to get with a person who gets that, and if things work out, will be willing to go through all the steps of transition etc.because, hopefully i'll look a lot more female on the other side. (gets me)Cluster, I know what you mean, and I suppose that my issue is kind of the reverse but kind of the same.At this point I see myself as someone who has the body of a woman and so people who are attracted to me are likely attached to women, but I do not want to behave nor to be treated like a woman in intimate situations.I need to feel as if I have a functioning male part when I'm intimate, I don't want to use my biological parts when being intimate, if that makes any sense. - variation of the Sith Code inspired by Sienna Fire There are people out there that don't see the gender, they see the personality.This is all the only reason I'm still considering having SRS.
Maybe I need to to be able to be intimate with anyone?
That leaves the actual sex acts I'm willing and able to perform somewhat limited, especially with another woman.
Cluster, I know what you mean, and I suppose that my issue is kind of the reverse but kind of the same.
I need to feel like I have a vagina if we're being intimate, to be blunt.
I need to be treated like a woman and behave like one too, and I need someone that will recognize the female parts that I was supposed to have.
I'm just not sure who is interested in someon who looks like me but who wants to be intimate in the way I want to be.