Rules of modern day dating
It was at this point that I stopped to take a look through all the notes that I’d been keeping at home.I had pages and pages of notes detailing what I was saying to get women attracted to me, how I was dealing with challenging situations and how I was getting so many women to want to have sex with me.
I didn’t have to put on an act, lie to women or use any tacky or weird “seduction” tricks to get women to like me. A long time ago, I got lucky and hooked up with a girl at a party.I was young and didn’t know what I was doing, but because we had both been drinking, we somehow started kissing and that then lead to us getting into a relationship.I’d had enough of being alone and thinking that I wasn’t good enough for women.I’d see other guys with a beautiful girlfriend or wife on their arm and wonder, I knew that I was a good guy and that I deserved better, but hot women just didn’t seem to value the traits that I had to offer.I was getting results by simply displaying the personality traits and behaviors that naturally attract women.
I was also using a completely different approach to conversation than most guys use with women…and it was working!
Other guys seemed to be doing it so easily, so what was I missing? After years of depressing loneliness and feeling left out, I decided to face up to my fears and go out to bars and nightclubs every weekend to approach women until I worked out how to get beautiful women to feel attracted to me.
Was I an odd, weird type of guy who simply had to stay alone or accept an unattractive woman? No matter how much I tried to fill up my life with other things (e.g. I was determined to work out how other normal guys were getting such hot girlfriends.
A year and a half into the relationship, I had become very insecure, clingy and jealous and it was really turning her off.
So, she went out with her sister and some friends, cheated on me and then dumped me over the phone the next day. I got dumped back in the time before the internet had people online who were helping each other out, so I was basically on my own.
I had no idea what to say to get beautiful women interested and I also feared being rejected.