What to expect at 6 months of dating
If I got a firm no, I'd definitely go NC from there.I'd plan to move on with my life, begin dating new girls, and put this experience behind me once and for all.
It seemed like she went into the conversation determined to end things and I wasn't going to jump on a pity offering that could have come out of weakness at the time.This was surprising to me, especially since she'll know I was able to see that she looked. They think I should tell her I know exactly where she was coming from, but to point out the reasons I thought caused this and to show the fact that I'm committed to doing anything to making things work, even if it means sacrificing some pride.They figure I have so much more to gain than to lose by trying.Later that night, I decided it wasn't worth putting myself through the agony of anticipation for two days, so I decided to call her. In her mind, I had all of the qualities she had ever wanted in a guy.She thought we had so many things in common and that I treated her exactly as she'd want someone to treat her.As for keeping in touch, I told her I'd need some time to think about that and see how I feel before I could make a decision.
I know that conventional wisdom might say I just need to move on here, but I really feel like there was something special there.
If there were any problems with the relationship, in my opinion, it was the fact that we both had a lot of weekend obligations over the summer.
These weekends spent out of town prevented us from being able to see each other most weekends.
- She also said that there were times when she did feel that we clicked the way she was looking for..just wasn't always there like she thought it should be.
- She acknowledged that she could be making a big mistake. I deliberately took things slowly in light of her limited relationship history.
I had such a great time whenever we saw each other and I haven't felt this way about someone in a really long time (I've dated a fair bit).